Hey everyone. I feel like I'm kind of in the bind here, I try not to ask out to others on my own problems but this one has got me in a rut.
This Friday and the weekend me and my buds is going to have a weekend sleep over and just play games, watch some movies, and may go places. All of my friends are up for the idea, but one and he gave me a hard time about it last night. Keep in mind that I just about ended my friendship with him over a miss understand, but after last night, I'm starting to feel like nothing was heal and our friendship is dieing more and more. I've known this guy for 8 years almost 9 now, and we had our moments, teasing, making fun of one another, having fun, and getting into trouble. He was a bro, and we was like brothers... now It's like I don't know him anymore, we talk on skype and he normally replies with meh, or hmm. It didn't bother me, and our 1st real fight happen this year when he said that he like my sister as a friend. In my mind and this is just coming off from knowing this guy my whole life. Back in 11th grade he was framed for groping another girls butt. I though he didn't do it and someone just pin the framed on him, around the same time I had a rumor about me with a death list to pick off the people who wronged me, still didn't know who started it, but I don't care about it... then just last year he did admitted that he was the one who touch that girls butt, I was like "What the Fuck!" I defended him for all these year, it was just a shock to me. My sister is 13 soon to be 14, and he like 25 and giving that bit of history; Big brother flag went up quickly. Lucky they are friends and only friends with some talk here and there and a hug once in a while, nothing sexual or anything wrong.
The 2nd time we fought was over his anger of his brother and how he wanted to kill him. Me and the others fought he was serious and I over reacted because I knew was he going to end someone else's life then when the cops come go down in a blaze a glory like he was some badass gangster. I tried and pleaded with him, then he said his pet peeve and from how he typed it it sounded to me like a threat. I have Aspurgers and I'm a bit of a hot it, granted I have a long fuse before I go boom, but when he said that, I wanted nothing to do with him anymore, but then finally friends stepped in and we made up and its been a slow recovery from then. I'm trying to get a hold of my emotions and trying not to fly off the handle.
Last night... This all went down! [This is all coming from my feed so you only see what I've typed, everyone else will be in a blue box with a named above it. His user name is Kaz, and my other buds: Arcana is Mike
and UberDiscord, Richie
That's the whole thing... after that we started to talk like normal. I'm trying to figure out what the hell happen, and why did it happen. I'm still kind of pissed that he brought in the whole "if you over react, you can't have a girl" card. You know I took a pych class and either we was so down that we wanted a rise out of someone, he really dosen't want to go, or trying to make others feel like he dose. Yeah sure we kind of do the same thing from time to time, but we switch it every now and them. You know he used to come to my house every weekend when I lived in the old house, and before he move to VA, we would always play soul Calibur or Mortal Kombat and we role play from the game play like no tomorrow and that's all we did every week that I was at my mom's. He also told me at one point that he has multiple personalities syndrome, and Bipolar so it would be an act of that...
I'm just sick of fighting with the guy over nothing. Who's in the right? what can I do to either fix this or... I don't know, I think his negativity is starting to get to me... please feel free to comment below.